Listening is done at many levels. But as we become skilled at reactive listening — mixing everything we're taking in to a manageable level — we're inadvertently contributing to the demise of effective communication. 
What's missing? Intentional, proactive listening.
Intentional listening reveals the voice of those with whom we want to connect. And by voice, I mean the cares, aspirations and concerns of your target audience. It's the key to the most basic principle of effective communication — that connection takes place in the context of shared experience.
Put another way, intentional listening will identify, outline and define the language of the closest you will ever come to a can't-miss message. And it's the key to the instigation of a whole new brand of experiences, those uniquely shared by you (or your business) and your most coveted customer.

Translation: the shortest distance between where we are today and a relationship that results in the development of stronger brands and better business is less about constructing a long list of capabilities and more about one or two questions that instigate dialogue. It's less about what we do and more about where our clients live each day. It's less about what we know and more about what we can learn if we'll listen first — and then build experiences that center on ways to continue to listen.
Game-changing social media marketing plans and strategies, not to mention the path to lifetime customers, just might be less about beginning with a compelling marketing message and more about intentional listening.
A final thought: 

"The reason social media is so difficult for most organizations? It's a process, not an event" — Seth Godin

Editor's Note: Catch up on all of the rules of social media marketing success here.